When I said, "I am unwilling to have any contact with you ever again," I didn't mean, "Wait three weeks and then try again."
Perhaps the words, "harassment," "legal," and "action," will be harder to misunderstand. I really hope so, but given his talent at reading what I say and interpreting it to mean whatever suits him, I am not optimistic.
And if not, his behavior falls under the state definition of harassment. As a university employee, his behavior also violates university policy. And I talked to people who know people, and they say The University takes this very seriously. It feels good to know that, not only do I have a social Team Me, but if I need to, I think I have an official Team Me. The kind with big, University, guns.
So I wrote down the timeline so far, and emailed it to myself. I am saving his email and my response.