What you want is to continue this discussion. You are interested in it; you are interested in my opinion. That's flattering, and appreciated. I'm impressed with your willingness to ask.
The thing is, I am not enjoying this discussion. It makes my day worse when it shows up in my inbox. These are things I push at, deal with, all the time, and it's exhausting. I do not want to seek out more. I'm sorry if I wasn't clear before, but I am ending this discussion.
He didn't manage to leave without some "wisdom to empart," (his words). Something about being in charge of my own happiness. *eyeroll* Every time I think, maybe there's something there, he goes and tries to mansplain happiness to me.
Dear Happiness Expert: Yup. That's exactly what I'm doing.